Living Like Jesus

Interesting to read this article in light of "Social Base Analysis." There are some Christians who think Jesus should be enough and all of life ought to be ministry, with little attention to our own needs. When they burn out, they feel their failure is because of spiritual immaturity. I was probably like this in college and earlier Christian ministry years. Yet the older I get, the more I recognize my own limitations. Some of those include my emotional, economic, strategic and physical needs. Once those have been met, and they don't need to be extravagantly met, then I have the resources to be able to reach out and help others. We all need to gauge our own needs and how well they are being met, and then also gauge our service for others.

Five friends came together to stretch their faith.

They left comfortable apartments for a communal home within walking distance of a prison, a pawnshop, a derelict trailer park. Exhaust from a sugar beet factory drifted down the streets.

Moving in last January, they pledged to spend one year together, learning to become true followers of Christ. They would give generously, love unconditionally. They would exchange their middle-class ways for humility and simplicity, forgoing Hardee's fries, new CDs, even the basic comfort of privacy.

"The focus has to be on God and the way of life he has set out for us, as opposed to the way we want to live, which is very selfish," Jeromy Emerling said.

A few months into the experiment, at a weekly house meeting, Jake Neufeld framed the vision this way: "Church is not something we attend. It's something we are."

But even lofty rhetoric could not lift the mood that sleety evening in early April. A quarter of their year together had passed, and the friends felt they had failed. They had not met a single neighbor. They had not given any aid. Everyday life seemed to suck up all their energy; it was draining just to figure out whose turn it was to mop the kitchen floor.

"We're trying to live so every dimension of our lives is different," Jeromy said. Then he admitted: "We don't know what that will look like."